Expectations is natural phenomena (when you respect/admire someone or whenever you feel/do something good with pure intentions for someone) but it leads you to disappointment which hurts the most sometimes. You can’t get rid of it completely for forever but all you need is to get through this to put really hard efforts to neutralize […]Thoughts #90
It has been a long break for me from Blogging. I wasn’t ready to start and I’m still not sure what is going to be the output of this blog.
Well, to start with, I always had a question in mind on why certain things happen. It is said that there is some reason for everything that is happening to us. But what is the reason? Maybe we do find reasons for few things that occurs to us but definitely not all. For instance, you come across a situation in life where you have been cheated in some way by someone you trusted. When such a situation comes in you learn a lesson for life. You will be cautious post that, it will become so obvious for you to think multiple times to trust someone once again. In this case, you have the reason on why such a scenario occured. Let’s assume that it’s to make that person realize that one should not trust anyone so much.
Now, let’s say same situation reoccur in life. Though a precaution has been taken. Now what is should be the reason? It’s not possible for anybody to live in this world by not trusting anyone. So it won’t make sense if we claim or assume the reason to be not to trust anyone. This is just a simple example. There can be more complicated one’s as well where anyone would wonder on its occurrence.
So what are your thoughts or opinion on things happening in life. In specific, what do you think the reason would be when repeated things happen in life inspite of being cautious?
Sharing you all, few of my trial with quotes. 😊
Are you an active person in Social Media? Then definitely you will be able to relate to my thoughts & reflect.
I’m not so sure about when I exactly started noticing these so called critics. But then it has got into my head during this Corona days. During these recent times, irrespective of the situation, news, or whatever may be, everyone has an opinion on it (Well, I’m not against voicing out opinions as it’s our right). But when you have an opinion on something especially when it is a highly serious one or an important social issue, or even politics, the one who is criticizing it should have atleast a minimum knowledge on that matter. That is not the case now. I have come across scenarios where, even a school student had made derogatory comments with no proper data or knowledge on the topic. It has become a fashion that if there is a news, people will have to make some comments whether or not they are aware of what it is. When a celebrity or any person which is liked by majority of the people, backs such news, then there is no second thought, it would be a blind follow up with so many statements & criticism floating around. Some even takes it to the level where they starts abusing the people who goes against them. Anyone with a phone & an active social media account, then the drama begins.
There are two types of news as well, these days. One is commercialized and the other is the genuine one. What happens is, the increase in news which has commercial value or a news with either political motive has gained success over the genuine one’s. Hence people nowadays are finding it difficult to understand & differentiate them. So whichever news comes in people just gives their opinions & some criticize it & the real news is lost somewhere.
“Opinion is the medium between knowledge and ignorance.”- Plato
Any educated person should think twice when you step into those comment sections. Should give the thought if that is really necessary. Because at the end of the day, by dropping a comment, the criticism received or thrown at, or the abuse made in between the conversation is just not going to benefit either of the persons involved in it. If it’s a commercial thread then you are just being a moderator there in spreading the news and making it popular. Most of those viral news has no value to the people if you realize. You are just helping those social media pages to achieve their goal. So be wise before misusing your knowledge or energy. Opinions or constructive criticism is good to put it through, but then you should know where, to whom & the platform you are to put across.
There are lot of people amongst us who are so strong mentally. They can undergo any extreme scenarios in life and they face each of it confidently not bothering about the result. Not all can be that way. However there is a the other side of such people. Maybe not most doesn’t show that side of theirs to the outside world. It’s the side, which struggles but still appears or projects to be calm. Calm mind will help you think productive. It can give you the power to a clarified road to destination. Infact, being calm mentally will allow to fall things in place without being stressed out.. Stay Calm & Stay Strong..!!
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Have you all felt happiness in the little things in life?
We all run a busy life, kids busy with studies and games, teenagers busy with social media and lives in their own world, rest either busy at work or at home doing the chores and the list goes on..
Amongst these tight schedules and the stressful days, we all would have had moments where we go gaga with some silliest reasons. Might be a sudden hug from mom or a simple smile from a random person, a text from your loved one. It can even be that moment after you give a small helping hand to someone. Some soothing words or a little action can bring a change in everybody’s life.
These pictures just popped up as a result of my dad’s innovative thinking. He just came across these face like pieces amidst cutting vegetables(Well, my dad is an amazing cook..!!) and then asked me to click a picture of it. Then we thought why don’t we just create a character out of it, that’s how Mr. & Mrs. KAYA happened.
The first image is them posing for a click while the second is the one after a fight. 😉 Thought I would share this little creativity of God, the one who creates wonderful things, no matter what. 😊
After starting my blog, the responses I received was overwhelming. It was totally unexpected. Among those conversations , I came to know from one of my college buddy that she had written a blog as well. Next moment she shared the link along with the access details as it was a private blog. Hmm…!! Well, I believe userid & password sharing is common among friends. Nothing official about it. 😉
I was having this conversation with her amidst my work schedule and I had no way to read that immediately. Informed her on the same and also promised to look into it soon after my day’s work is done. Even before checking it out, I was so sure that I have something amazing waiting to be read.
The wait was over, it was evening, my work day was over and there I was excited to read my friend’s blog. As promised, I clicked the link, shared by her,entered the credentials and finally ready to start off. I then started, “Wait For The Bloom”.
She started off with a warning that no matter what you would not get away with it(Girls be ready 😈) it was not the exact words though. I just liked the way she had put it. She went ahead describing about marriage. Then narrating on how it happened to her it, then moving on to their various visits soon after marriage, their honeymoon trip and how soon they started to have their backs. It went on describing the various occasions she had come across & she made sure to capture all the dates of each one of it with a picture of the moment which was a delight to my eyes.
Then came the surprise..!! Wow 😍 she is pregnant . She beautifully portrayed that feel of getting into motherhood. The trust she had in God even before it was confirmed technically and the care she initiated from the day she felt another life inside her was amazing.
She then continued with her post detailing the days of pregnancy and cravings which then ended with a little angel coming out of her. It was such a pleasure to read it. Being a girl, reading those beautiful memories just brought a happy tear in my eyes.
Every girl, in this world would definitely have a dream about her phase of wedding & motherhood. When we take a typical south Indian girl, her dream would be to have a list of all pre-wedding shopping list which she does with the help of her friends & family (Some things may not be in that common list😉). You know why, because for every bride to be, will have a group of friends & cousin’s who helps you prepare a secret list which would definitely be a fun for the “Team Bride”. Then to have a busy schedule, doing all purchases, getting dressed up and enjoying all beautiful moments.
On the day of wedding, draping herself in the elegant silk saree, wearing the appropriate jewels and walking into the mandapam(the hall), then making herself comfortable sitting near the groom, giving a glance with a glee. Then picturing the most awaited moment of the groom tying the knot to her and the crowd showering their blessings. It is always a dream moment for any girl.
Well more than the joy of this wedding dream, it’s always the thought of being a mother. Carrying a life within you, enjoying the nine months with an extra heart beat and all the care & attention you get from your husband & family, those would be the most precious days in every girl’s life which every women awaits in her lifetime.
I’m very thankful to my friend for sharing her precious memories with me and give me a walk-through of a lovely life which inspired me to write this post.